why even bother?
"i don’t mean to hurt you…" or "i don’t want to hurt you…"
haha familar lines, right? another friend has been victim to both those lines for the past few months. and it saddens me to have to hear her rave on and on about how each guy says that line to her. really. does he even mean it? because if he really does, then why do it? why hurt her? better yet, why even say that line? anyone the least bit sensitive would know that those lines are just pointless. no matter how you really mean it. they just make things worse. that’s a fact. the person’s in pain. hello?! saying that you don’t mean to hurt them won’t even register in their heads. so say what you have to say. don’t add any of those lines or other words of comfort because they won’t amount to anything at that point. and leave them be. they need time to mourn. don’t ask them every now and then how they’re doing. you mihgt think it’s sweet, but actually it’s just degrading at that point.
but who am i to point fingers? i’ve made the same mistake in the past. *sigh* that is the sadnosity of being human — the whole "making mistakes every now and then thing." still, i know better now and i’m telling those who happen to drop by my dear blog to not make the same mistake. hahaha what on earth am i blabbing about? basta. that’s all i have to say, i guess. oh, and i just pray i don’t make the same mistake again, though. hahaha
